Sex harnesses, everything you need to know

The sex harness is one of the most interesting sex toys on the market of erotic toys. Its growing popularity among heterosexual couples came with the saga of the 50 Shades of Greywhere you discover an erotically exciting way to use it. A way to make the most interesting and pleasurable sex as a couple.

Anyone can wear a dildo harness and anyone can be penetrated by a sex harness. Tell us, have you ever thought about having harness sex?

What are strap-ons?

A erotic harness or strap-onis a toy designed for pleasure. It consists of straps and a dildo that can be included in the harness or not. Most dildos can be incorporated into harnesses.

The harness is placed on the body with the straps to penetrate the partner, as if it were a belt. Later on we will discuss the types of harnesses and how they can be used.

Incorporating a new element into sexual relationships can be very exciting. At Adrien Lastic we advise you to consider whether it is something you want to try and to discuss it with your partner. The communication is a very important part of the relationship. Keep in mind that with the growing popularity of starp-onThis has become one of the sexual fantasies of many people. Imagine that it is also your partner's fantasy and it has never occurred to you to mention it to each other. Maybe you will find a shared fetish and the ideal complement to give a new and stimulating touch to your sex life.

What is the purpose of a belt with a dildo or Strap-on?

There are benefits of all kinds that you should consider if you are considering using a sex harness or if you are still not sure about it. In the case of people with a vulva, the advantage is very great, because you will have the hands-free to touch your partner where and how you want while using the harness. You will have ten free fingers to use for masturbating, caressing, scratching, touching. To use a harness, simply move your hips to the rhythm you like and accompany your thrusts with caresses or whatever you find stimulating, such as pinching your partner's skin or massaging the nipples. If the harness is worn by a person with a penis, it can extend the size of the penis or provide a completely different sensation with the texture of the hollow dildo.

There are many options to choose from and they are very varied, you have to take into account that you can penetrate vaginally or anally. In fact, recently it has become quite fashionable the practice of anal penetration. peggingin this one is the person with a vulva anally penetrating the person with a penis in the relation. It is a very interesting practice with which you can get to stimulate the prostate of the man, a half forgotten part, but it is very sensitive and can generate extremely exciting orgasms for people with penis, learn more about how to stimulate the prostate. here.

When to use a harness or strap-on

How and when to use a strap-on depends on the type of strap-on you choose to use. There are two main groups of strap-ons:

  • HARNESS WITH STRAP

These are the typical traditional harnesses that are placed on the hips and legs with straps to keep it fixed. It is very easy to use, perhaps the easiest to use, as it is very comfortable and securely fastened. If you've ever used a climbing or adventure harness, sex harnesses are fitted in the same way, usually with two holes to tuck each leg in and then fastened at the waist. There are three types of harnesses that have straps:

    • Harness with dildoStrap-ons are the cheapest, most common and simplest. They come with a dildo included in the harness.
    • Hollow harnessThis is a type of harness that can be worn by anyone, but we recommend it especially for people with penises who want to increase their size or try new sensations and textures with the hollow dildo. Some of the harnesses are double, there is the possibility of vaginal and anal penetration simultaneously, creating a very pleasant stimulation.
    • Universal harnessesis one of the best options, as they have a ring, usually made of metal, that allows the insertion of a dildo or a ring with a base. You can use the dildo you normally use or buy a new one choosing between the texture, thickness and size... You can also buy a vibrating dildo to increase stimulation and arousal.

 HARNESS WITHOUT LEASH

This type of harness is very innovative and new, they are characterised by completely dispensing with straps. In this case, it can only be worn by people with a vulva, because the way it is held in place and straight is with an egg-shaped end. There are several sizes for different sizes of vagina, which is worn by the person who is going to perform the penetration.

These harnesses can also be called by other names, strapless strap-on. It is possible that when you try it you will find it more complicated to use, as they require muscle tone and strength when penetrating. You will be holding it with the vagina itself. Even so, they are the best option if you want to forget about straps.

Most strapless harnesses are also available with vibration, either built into the dildo itself or wired via a remote control.

How to use a sex harness

You probably don't know what to keep in mind when having sex with a harness, especially if it's your first time. Although you should keep in mind that there is always a first time, for everything, so you shouldn't be nervous.

As with any sex toy, there are a number of precautions and care you should take. Toys should not be shared in the first place, but if you intend to do so, the best thing you can do is to use condoms and change it every time the dildo is going to penetrate a different person. The same goes for anal use: remember to put a condom to the dildo to avoid infection. Although it may seem like a waste of time, you will avoid infections and the good part is that you can use condoms with different textures or flavours.

Another tip is to use lubricant during penetration to make it more pleasurable, especially if it is going to be anal, as it does not lubricate naturally. At Adrien Lastic we have several options for every type of situation you may find yourself in. Here are some of them our favourite lubricants below. Make sure that the one you are going to use is compatible with your harness, as we don't want it to get damaged before its time.

Finally, the positions that you can use with the harness with or without straps are infinite. It is one of the easiest toys to use, you can use it in almost any position and the result will be very pleasurable and stimulating.